The Talmud of Relationships, Volume 1

The Talmud of Relationships, Volume 1

God, Self, and Family

Rabbi Amy Scheinerman

256 pages

Paperback

October 2018

978-0-8276-1264-8

$19.95 Pre-order

About the Book

How can I tame my ego? How might I control my anger? How might I experience the spirituality of sexual intimacy? How can I bestow appropriate honor on a difficult parent? How might I accept my own suffering and the suffering of those whom I love?

Enter the Talmudic study house with innovative teacher Rabbi Amy Scheinerman and continue the Jewish values–based conversations that began two thousand years ago. The Talmud of Relationships, Volume 1 shows how the ancient Jewish texts of Talmud can facilitate modern relationship-building—with parents, children, spouses, family members, friends, and ourselves.

Scheinerman devotes each chapter to a different Talmud text exploring relationships—and many of the selections are fresh, largely unknown passages. Overcoming the roadblocks of language and style that can keep even the curious from diving into Talmud, she walks readers through the logic of each passage, offering full textual translations and expanding on these richly complex conversations so that each of us can weigh multiple perspectives and draw our own conclusions. Scheinerman provides grounding in why the selected passage matters, its historical background, a gripping narrative of the rabbis’ evolving commentary, insightful anecdotes and questions for thought and discussion, and a cogent synopsis.

Through this firsthand encounter with the core text of Judaism, readers of all levels—Jews and non-Jews, newcomers and veterans, students and teachers, individuals and chevruta partners and families alike—will discover the treasure of the oral Torah.
 

Author Bio

Amy Scheinerman is a teacher, writer, and hospice rabbi. She is a former trustee on the Board of the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR), former president of the Baltimore Board of Rabbis, and a current member of the CCAR Responsa Committee.
 

Praise

“Amy Scheinerman does it again. She takes the most obscure Talmudic texts and makes them come alive, right before your eyes. And the best part: the ‘Aha’ moment is not short-lived. Amy’s insights will stick to your bones and add value and meaning to your life.”—Rabbi Stacy Offner, Temple Beth Tikvah, Madison, Connecticut

“A treasure trove of insight, information, and meaning that invites us into the world of the rabbis and the Talmudic tradition. Be prepared to experience the Talmud come alive as we learn to navigate engrossing texts and also reflect on our own relationships: who we are and who we aspire to be.”—Rabbi Norman Cohen, professor of Midrash at HUC-JIR and author of The Way into Torah

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments
Introduction: Why Talmud?
Part 1. The Core: Relationships with God and Self
1. Finding Our Place: Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Menachot 29b
2. Controlling Our Anger: Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Berakhot 7a
3. Understanding Our Suffering: Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Berakhot 5a–b
4. Approaching Prayer: Mishnah Berakhot 4:2 and the Accompanying Gemara from the Babylonian and Jerusalem Talmuds
Part 2. First Sphere: Family Relationships
5. Honoring Our Parents: Jerusalem Talmud, Tractate Pe’ah 1a, 5b–6b
6. Affirming Our Sexuality: Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Nedarim 20a–b
7. Balancing Family and Study: Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Ketubot 61b, 62b–63a
Appendix: Theodicy, the Problem of God’s Justice
Glossary
Notes
Bibliography

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